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HAY, Joan “Roberta”


On December 7, 2022 at Corangamarah, Colac, aged 93 years.
Loved wife of Ron (dec) Cherished mother of Kerrie (Galloway), Ross, Bronwyn (Fulford), Pam (De Roest), Geoff and Lisa (Robinson). Nanny of 15 and great nanny of 13.

Daughter of Arthur and Doris Thomson (nee Boyd) (both dec) Adored sister of Bette, John, Jeanette (all dec) Merla and Bob. Respected sister-in-law of Neil and Lyn.

A selfless woman, who lived a remarkable life of kindness, love and laughter.
Always loved. Always missed.

Funeral notice


Service

Tuesday December 13, 2022

A Memorial Service to celebrate the life of Mrs. Roberta Hay will be held in the Chapel at Wesley Place, 15 Skene Street, Colac on Tuesday, December 13, 2022 commencing at 1:00pm.

For those that are unable to attend, the service will be live-streamed. Click here to view.

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  1. Many fond and happy memories of Roberta from times shared at Larpent School Mother's Club meeting and functions.
    Her sharp wit and ready laughter oiled the cogs when the unexpected demanded a change of plans. Always reliable, always willing, always with a ready smile. Our children shared happy times too, so all of us send our sympathy and love to Roberta's family. May the many memories comfort you in the days ahead.
    Peg Wilson and family

    Peggy Wilson

    December 15, 2022 11:11 am

  2. Dear Lisa and family,
    I am truly sorry for the loss of your mum, my friend and partner in crime when it came to the quirky ditty’s ( which we rehearsed every day I saw her.) She was an incredible lady with a massive heart of pure gold, a sense of humor that would make the meanest person break down with tears of laughter. I am so pleased that I got to know her and you to while she was with us in MCauley . I will miss her greatly.
    Megan x

    Megan Richards

    December 13, 2022 11:05 pm

  3. To Pam and all the family. Thinking of you all today as you celebrate, and farewell Mrs Hay.
    May the many wonderful memories bring you comfort at this very sad time.
    Jane Williams (O’Bryan)

    Jane Williams

    December 13, 2022 11:21 am

  4. So sad to hear the passing of my cousin Roberta. She will be missed by so many.
    Glenis McDougall

    Glenis McDougall

    December 13, 2022 9:46 am

  5. My sisters Faye Lemke (McDougall) & Bev Clarence (McDougall) we will miss our cousin Roberta. Always smiling and ready for a good joke. She will be missed by so many.
    Glenis McDougall

    Glenis McDougall

    December 13, 2022 9:29 am

  6. With fondest memories of Roberta, her wisdom, sense of fun and laughter, loved by all.
    Sympathies to her family at this sad time.

    Deidre Atwell

    Deidre Atwell

    December 13, 2022 9:00 am

  7. Sending much love and sympathy to Lisa and family on the passing of dear Roberta. She was a wonderful and caring friend, work colleague and neighbour to Mum (Eily Cunningham) over many years.
    They could talk for hours!! Roberta would often meet Mum at the back fence to pass over some freshly baked pear muffins and was always genuinely interested in our family.
    Rest in peace Roberta xo

    Anne Cunningham

    December 13, 2022 8:42 am

  8. To all the Hay family, we would like to pass on our condolences at the news of Roberta's death. A fine lady who was always pleased to see us and always had a smile, may all your loving memories bring comfort to you
    Regards
    Alan & Janine Carson

    Janine Carson

    December 12, 2022 5:48 pm

  9. Dear Lisa and family,
    My deepest sympathy on the passing of your beautiful and caring mum.
    RIP Roberta

    Chris

    Christine Drayton

    December 12, 2022 1:49 pm

  10. Deepest sympathy to all of Roberta’s family. I first met Roberta as a teenager when she visited my grandmother then as a student nurse. Full of knowledge and a kind and caring lady. Great friend of Joyce Gaylard and her family. Rest in peace.

    Karen Gaylard

    December 10, 2022 3:43 pm

  11. Sincere sympathy to Ross and the Hay family. Roberta was a much loved member of the community. She helped so many people, through her nursing, also young people in public speaking. Our thoughts are with you. A real community person. Stewart and Vonda Carson.

    Stewart Carson

    December 10, 2022 9:24 am

  12. To Ross and all of Roberta’s family. We extend our sincere sympathy in her passing. Many long chats at the hospital and she helped so many young people in Public speaking. She was a wonderful community person. Our thoughts are with you. Stewart and Vonda Carson.

    Vonda Carson

    December 09, 2022 3:28 pm

  13. Deepest sympathy to Ross and family on the passing of Roberta she was such a lovely caring woman.

    Judy Curtis

    December 09, 2022 3:09 pm

  14. Deepest sympathy Bob and Lyn on the passing of Roberta. wonderful memories of days at u3A and later at Mercy Place. Rest In Peace Roberta. Denise

    Denise Paatsch

    December 09, 2022 10:40 am

  15. My Condolences to the Hay family also Merla & Bob on the passing of Roberta, she was born nurse, dedicating many years to the care of our community, visiting nursing over the majority of that time, she was a dear friend & I have lovely memories of time spent with Berta & lots of laughs. RIP. 🌹💐

    Janet Evans

    December 09, 2022 10:01 am

  16. Farewell to a wonderfully kind and wise woman. Always interested in others and gave more than she took. Thanks for your encouragement and countless chats Roberta. Some people you meet make your life a much better place. You were truly one of those. Proud to have known you and to have called you my friend. Thoughts and sympathy with your family.

    Chris Williams

    December 09, 2022 8:49 am

  17. Dear Roberta
    You were a kind and understanding lady. Although I met you late in life, we had a connection. I’m sure I speak on behalf of all Mercy’s staff when I say you will be deeply missed.
    Deepest sympathy’s to Roberta’s family at this emotional time. Shine bright like a diamond Roberta 🌹🕊

    Belinda Thomas

    December 09, 2022 2:12 am

  18. Many memories of Roberta our neighbour at Larpent. Friend and neighbour to Dawn and Harold Hodge( both dec). A lovely lady and wonderful nurse.
    With sympathy to the Hay family from Glenda and Dianne.

    Glenda Dyson

    December 08, 2022 9:02 pm

  19. Lovely memories of a sweet caring lady that for many years during our nursing days and when we would cross paths elsewhere always loved to hear how my family were and very proud to talk of hers.
    Thinking of you all at this very sad time may she RIP

    Jan Wilson

    December 08, 2022 8:39 pm

  20. Wonderful life well lived…. Condolences ❤️

    Lee White

    December 08, 2022 6:59 pm

  21. So many wonderful memories of long chats with this beautiful lady. Such a kind and loving soul who dedicated her life to the care of others and the best Nan to Nicky.
    RIP Roberta
    ♥️

    Carolyn Sinclair

    December 08, 2022 6:20 pm

  22. Deepest sympathy to Ross and family on the passing of your beloved Mum she was a lovely lady our thoughts are with you from Eric and Eva Hay

    Eva Hay

    December 08, 2022 4:47 pm

  23. My thoughts are with Bob and Lyn on the passing of Roberta,she was a very caring and thoughtful Lady.

    Joan Taylor

    December 08, 2022 4:10 pm

  24. To the hay family my deepest sympathy is extended to you all on the passing of your dear mum ,she was a beautiful soul so thoughtful and kind may she rest in peace.

    Jennie Nicholls

    December 08, 2022 3:04 pm